After being the butt of a lot of jokes on a dating site, I am sure the majority of you will be surprised to learn that not everyone in this world is a fan of a masseuse’s sexual advances.
As an industry we are used to a certain standard of behaviour and I suppose we should be, but I have never really been able to relate to the idea of someone using their time and energy to get a massage or sex act from their masseuse.
It is a way of getting something done without actually getting anything done.
I am not saying that you should be ashamed of your massage or your masseuses time.
I simply do not understand the idea that people are going to be drawn to the masseuse who is willing to do anything for their money.
If you are a masseuser who enjoys getting an expensive massage, then why should you not enjoy a good blowjob from your masseur?
It can be a lot more rewarding than just paying for a massage, so why not do it at home?
The bottom line is that you can get a lot done from your friends, family and colleagues, but if you can’t make it work at home you should stop using them as a massage partner.
I can tell you that the average masseuse has probably spent about $30,000 in their career and the vast majority of it was spent on their own time and money.
It just makes no sense to spend that much money on a massage if you have no idea what you are getting into.
If I were a masseur I would probably recommend that you stop using your friends or family as a partner because they don’t offer you anything.
If someone is willing and able to take the time to get you what you want and you are able to work out a working relationship with them, that’s great, but it should not be the case.
It’s important to understand the importance of using your own time to work with people and that the masseuses experience is the only value that you provide.
When you work with a masseuses clients and get paid for it, you are doing the same thing that you would with any other professional: working out the relationship and then working out how to work together on the things you need to get done.
Do you have the time and skills to work on a relationship with your masseus?
Or are you willing to give up a lot to get what you need?